SATC overdosed

I was on SATC marathon last nite.
The movie was on HBO at 9pm, and followed by the rewind of their 3rd season, also on HBO.
It was like time traveling, only backwards...
I realised, Mr. Big was somewhat selfish... wanting to marry Carrie, but not willing to be part of Carrie's dream wedding...
Aidan Shaw was in the 3rd season, and I think, he was the best thing that ever happened to Carrie.

Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous - Carrie Bradshaw

I personally think, Aidan has loved Carrie the way Carrie loves herself.
He has even made her a better person.
He did make her quit smoking, didn't he?
One thing that even her 3 girlfriends couldn't do!