Tuesday, May 12, 2009

annoyed, but not perasan!

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the above combination, plus greyish tudung, was what i wore to work today..
dark, yes, i was totally aware of it!
well, not really the same brand, but the same 'ensemble' - pinstripe pants, belted cardi with black tube, and black pointy-toe pumps.

now, we all know that pinstripe pants can fool our eyes,
making our legs look just.... neverending?

but, im not here to write about fashion.
what do i know about it anyway..? :P

im here to write about something that happened at work today, which annoyed me to death!
i was walking in one of the departments in the office, when few 'kepochis' came to me and said:
"waaahh! kurusnya... slimnya... mcm org takde anak aje ni!! you ni, tak makan ke eh? perut pun takde??
"

not being perasan here, but i get these kinda comments, A LOT!
it's not something that im proud to be asked with.
im actually VERY annoyed with these kinda comments!
being a LOUD person, i normally replied to whatever they were trying to say,
in a mild way...

but today, i went slightly overboard...
my replies:
"sorry if the way i dress, disturbs you in a weird way... i wear what i want, and how i want it. no approval from anyone is needed."

"i've done some checkings, and im normal weight. i am NOT skinny or underweight. sorry if that too, disturbs you in God knows, what weird way!"

"FYI, i make the effort to spend some time to sweat it out.. futsal, 'flexing'.. sorry if you dont have the time or effort to do anything close to it! on top of that, i eat only when im hungry, i dont munch in between meals!"

"by the way, tell me, how would a married lady, with kids look like? are you saying they cant look like how i look now?? coz the last i checked, i AM a married woman, with 2 kids! tell me, i'd love to hear it! dont take my sentence as a perasan sentence... im just interested to know your reasons..."

cruel?
mean?
sarcastic?
all of the above???
like i care!

who are they to 'judge' or 'comment in a criticising way' anyway?
if it's once or twice, i wont mind..
how many times exactly?
owh, ive lost counts!

to these annoying people who has nothing better to do than getting other people annoyed,
my advice to you,
GET A LIFE!
and, by the way, im still very much interested to know: how do married women WITH kids are supposed to look like????


10 comments:

Marini Kamal said...

:) great answer
kadang tu rasa macam tak larat dgr ngomelan orang tentang kita. macamlah mereka tu perfect body sgt.

Well, u always look great and never look underweight or skinny :)
Take it as compliment ya kak

Anyen said...

hahaha...that is all the comment from who yang tak bersyukur dengan pemberiannya....heheh....believe that...we are at the best for who we are!!!...should be proud..at least you don't look like them...
heheh..derang tu tade keje selain dari making comments of others....

Fiza said...

yeah babe..kewl answer!

shoe-addict-mom said...

Marini_Kamal: a compliment should be said in an honest way. believe me, they were not honest when they said that!

Anyen: the thing is, i NEVER comment anything about them, and yes, im thankful that im NOT like them!

FIza: hihi! tq tq.. should i gloat now? :P

BlueJay78 said...

how i wish i can answer like U did..well said..

hellOO..
we're in 21'st century lar, why nak sama mcm dulu..apa, dah jadik mak org dah tak blh nak slim & slender and bergaya ke??

shoe-addict-mom said...

Part-time Mommy: exactly!!!

Ms Nellie said...

babe, trust me, I would die to be a mom of 2 and still maintain and have a figure like yours!

shoe-addict-mom said...

babe, dont say as if u're THAT big! :P

Lenny said...

tahnyer.. they are just jealous i suppose... ya.. exactly... how does a married man with kids should look like... ? hmm... i wonder..

shoe-addict-mom said...

lenn, in case u've heard of the answer, share with me k??